Where the eyes wander, the feet may follow. And there is potential for great sadness awaiting some wanderers. A few years ago a good client fell to this affliction. He was (and is!) an otherwise fine and likable man. Today he is serving time in federal prison in Louisiana. ¶ I volunteer at a local prison every Saturday here near Buffalo to conduct what I call a stealth ethics class in the guise of a nondenominational (Christian) Bible study. We use the text to examine our behavior and relationships, which I’ve been doing since 1999. Believe me when I say that getting a grip, if for no other reason than to stay out of prison, is very much worth the effort. If you, dear reader, are struggling with this issue, I will share this tool which I learned about on radio several years ago. It may help you with private, personal accountability. ¡May that wandering eye cease to roam! Yes, loneliness may be the largest problem on the planet, but it is not satiated by counterfeit love. Know thyself! If this seems difficult, get help!